Wednesday, March 23, 2016

Glad I'm Not At The Fence

I live in the suburbs of Kansas City and thank God my kids are older. I went outside yesterday to let the dogs out and I saw my two stay-at-home mom neighbors a couple houses down. And guess what they were doing?

They were talking to each other over the fence! That's right doing the whole "Let's talk over the 4'ft wood picket fence that we put up to keep each other's kids & dogs out of my yard fence". They each had a hand on one hip and a baby monitor in the other hand. It made me think back to my old days, (when I used to do that act of liking the other stay-at-home mom because our kids where going to play together no matter what, so I guess I better at least act like I like you)and made me want to vomit.

Yes, I'm grateful to my now 17 year old daughter, whom while during her "13-14 year old stage" put us through the bowels of hell without a towel. I would much rather fight with a teenager than have to socialize with a mother I really don't care about. And then have to compare kids. And don't think for a minute that doesn't go on. Because it does! The Game is Real! Dealing with teen girls is gravy compared to standing at that fence with a hip in one hand and a silent baby monitor in the other. Because I know what is on the other side of that baby monitor.

A sleep baby is on the other side only to be awoken by the sounds of elementary kids coming home from school. Those excited little kids running into the house through the front door, forgetting everything they just learned in school about quiet voices. Slamming that door shut, only after doing a quick scan of the house to see if the baby is up. And knowing if the baby is no where in sight then "it" must be sleeping. And since mom made us go to school, then let's get her back by waking up the baby.  Also, let's have tons of energy because we are finally home from school. Then throw in making the baby cry too, by taking away toys from it and getting in their face. Oh yeah! I'm so glad I'm not at that fence right now!






2 comments:

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  2. Good day,,,,
    Read my testimony!!!Getting ex back after a breakup. Am Becker Harold 30 from UK, my boyfriend of a year just broke up with me and am 28 weeks pregnant.I have cried my self to sleep most of the nights and don’t seem to concentrate during lectures sometimes I stay awake almost all night thinking about him and start to cry all over again.Because of this I end up not having energy for my next day’s classes ,my attendance has dropped and am always in uni and on time.Generally he is a very nice guy ,he ended it because he said we were arguing a lot and not getting along.He is right we’ve been arguing during the pregnancy a lot .After the break up I kept ringing him and telling him I will change.I am in love with this guy and he is the best guy I have ever been with.I’m still hurt and in disbelief when he said he didn’t have any romantic feelings towards me anymore that hurt me faster than a lethal syringe.He texts me now and then mainly to check up on how am doing with the pregnancy,he is supportive with it but it’s not fair on me, him texting me as I just want to grieve the pain and not have any stress due to the pregnancy.i was really upset and i needed help, so i searched for help online and I came across a website that suggested that Dr Ahmed Utimate can help solve marital problems, restore broken relationships and so on. So, I felt I should give him a try. I contacted him and he told me what to do and i did it then he did a spell for me. 28 hours later, my boyfriend came to me and apologized for the wrongs he did and promise never to do it again. Ever since then, everything has returned back to normal. I and my boyfriend are living together happily again.. All thanks to Dr Ahmed Utimate. If you need a spell caster that can cast a spell that truly works, I suggest you contact him. He will not disappoint you.
    This is his: E-mail: Ahmedutimate@gmail.com
    call and Add him up on Whats-app: +2348160153829

    Becker Harold
    from UK,
    SAVE YOUR CRUMBLING RELATIONSHIP

    ReplyDelete